How to negotiate salary without burning the offer

The exact script and posture for asking for more — and knowing when to stop.

Almost every offer has room. Not asking is the single most expensive mistake candidates make.

Know the market

Before you ask, know the range for this title, seniority, and location. Public salary data, past offers, and recruiter conversations all help.

Anchor high, but justify

Open 10–15% above what you'd accept, tied to a specific reason: another offer, above-market skill, or a scope larger than the ad implied.

Ask, then be quiet

Say the number, then stop talking. Filling the silence weakens your position.

Consider the whole package

Base is only part of it. Equity, bonus, signing, vacation, remote flexibility, and learning budget all have real value.

Steps

  1. 1

    Research the range

    Get 3 data points on typical salaries for this role, seniority, and market.

  2. 2

    Decide your walk-away

    Know the minimum you'll accept before the call.

  3. 3

    Make one clear ask

    State a number and a reason, then stop talking.

  4. 4

    Negotiate the full package

    If base is capped, ask about signing bonus, equity, or extra vacation.

Frequently asked questions